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Started by SleepyD, March 29, 2011, 09:43:29 am

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Chocofreak13

much as I don't like to homogenize, sometimes it's easier to find people with the same situation. one of the reasons Steve and I meshed (and hopefully will continue to mesh) so well is because, though he's never confirmed it, i'm pretty sure he's a greysexual like me. :0


I told my coworkers about Steve coming back and one of them immediately facepalmed. xD;;;

Penti-chan

So, as I went over my experience with Wild Wild West in Top(ic)less, I started to think about something only loosely connected: has a relative of yours ever had a wedding, that you weren't told about until either after the fact or at a point where you already have plans lined up?

Because, that aunt that told my mom to not let me see the aforementioned movie had only just married into the family. We were told about her and my uncle getting married...but, we didn't know until we already had tickets to go to Six Flags, so we didn't attend. Many years later, after she passed away, my uncle remarried...and surprise-surprise, we don't know about the wedding until we already had plans for that weekend ^^;

Bella

@Red and Swag ... I wish I could give advice, but I don't really know what the right course of action is. Kari makes a good point about trying to seek out like-minded people, maybe then you would be less prone to misunderstandings.

Chocofreak13

@pent: I don't think it's so much the Aunts in this case, as it is your Uncle being a weirdo. :\

Penti-chan

True; we've often joked about him being a scrambled egg xD (His initials were almost "EGG", until someone pointed it out to Grandma and Grandpa way back when; so they decided to switch the first and middle names around)

Le-Goujer

Everytime I lay in bed and look at Nanami Madobe on a pillow lying next to me and feel a deep sense of loneliness and desire to replace that pillow with a real girl.

I want to get a girlfriend with similar interests to me but everyone at work it over 40 and the closest any of roommates has come to dating a girl is getting piss drunk and touch a girls breast consentually (so nothing); and because my parents think that no girls would ever touch a videogame with a 10 foot pole, I have no where else to go for dating advice from real humans then here. If all else fails there is Wiki-How but I would like to keep that a last resort.

Anyone know where I can meet "gamer girls" as the hip hot with it and now hooligans say? There is a Barcade (Bar+Arcade) a little bit away from me, would that be a good place to start?

Penti-chan

That could be a start, yeah. I do know the feeling; generally, if I find someone with similar interests to me, they're almost always taken, and most of the people attracted to me are creeps that will go after anything that moves, and given the area I'm in, they'd probably kick me to the curb the second they learned anything about me -__-;

Not helping is that I'm not in a safe enough environment to explore myself and figure out who I am, on top of the fact that I feel like I'll never find anyone until after I move because I simply don't fit in with the area I've been dumped in...but it's been 5 years and I'm no closer to getting out of here.

LeaflameSD

i have a cute finnish tsundere gf now
things could be worse i guess

Bella

Everytime I lay in bed and look at Nanami Madobe on a pillow lying next to me and feel a deep sense of loneliness and desire to replace that pillow with a real girl.

I want to get a girlfriend with similar interests to me but everyone at work it over 40 and the closest any of roommates has come to dating a girl is getting piss drunk and touch a girls breast consentually (so nothing); and because my parents think that no girls would ever touch a videogame with a 10 foot pole, I have no where else to go for dating advice from real humans then here. If all else fails there is Wiki-How but I would like to keep that a last resort.

Anyone know where I can meet "gamer girls" as the hip hot with it and now hooligans say? There is a Barcade (Bar+Arcade) a little bit away from me, would that be a good place to start?
Having never specifically sought out a like-minded partner, I can't really give firm advice here. However, going to places where like-minded women might be found (like the barcade) is probably a good idea. Also consider getting involved in 'nerdy' clubs/orgs at your school, though there is the obvious flaw that the men-to-women ratio is probably going to be badly imbalanced against your favor, depending on what kind of organization it is.

Also think about online communities. Obviously this isn't the best idea if you're strictly against an LDR, but if you're willing it's a good way to find people with similar interests, which can lead to a friendship, which can lead to a romance, if the conditions are right and the chemistry is there.

i have a cute finnish tsundere gf now
things could be worse i guess
Congrats man!

LeaflameSD

thank you, bella
owo

zjhentohlauedy

tsundere GF. that's either really scary or Really good D8
My my, aren't you lovely~

LeaflameSD

tsundere GF. that's either really scary or Really good D8
its both ;3

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